Seven Stages Of Grief!

Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss, particularly to the loss of someone or something to which a bond was formed. Its human to be in grief when we lose someone. but we cant keep on grieving our whole life. As it says Time Heals Everything our grief also get healed and we slowly return back to our normal life. There are seven stages of all kinds of grief...

1. Grief / Shock- this is our general  reaction at first when we hear about loss of our dear ones
2. Denial - we tend to deny the fact at some level. We never want to accept it at first hand!
3. Anger - WHY ME WHY SO CRUEL TO ME? showing Anger for the loss is very natural. Anger without reason. showing anger to everyone around. blaming not just yourself but everyone on your sight. a feeling of paranoia!
4. Guilt- Frustration.. Feeling of guilt remembering all those good and bad times with your loved ones. remorse over things you did and didn't and you had planned. all those memories!
5. Pain and Sorrow : Depression... Loneliness.. Sad Reflection. All these lead to Pain and sorrow. you realise the true loss. you isolate yourself and get lost in despair!
6. Release and Resolution : Slowly with time you get adjusted with your new life. Your Friends are still there :) you get back to your right world.You haven't lost everyone
7. Return to Willingness to Love: A new Hope. Finally you are able to accept the Reality! A new plan for movng ahead. and you will once agan anticipate some good times to come!

ScareCrow- Pink Floyd

The black and green scarecrow,
as everyone knows,
stood with a bird on his hat
and straw everywhere.
He didn't care....
He stood in a field where barley grows.
His head did no thinking, his arms didn't move,
except when the wind cut up rough
and mice ran around on the ground.
He stood in a field where barley grows.
The black and green scarecrow is sadder than me,
but now he's resigned to his fate
'cause life's not unkind.
He doesn't mind.
He stood in a field where barley grows.

FEW FACTS ABOUT NEPAL SAMBAT

FEW FACTS about NEPAL SAMBAT

• The only calender named after the country.
• Introduced by National hero of Nepal Shankha Dhar Sakhwa.
• It was Introduced in 20 Oct 879 A.D., reign of King Raghavdev.
• It was in official use in all the national documents for 889 yrs.
• Even the Shah Rulers, after the unification of Nepal it was in use, evident by Sugauli Treaty.
• Later in 1903 A.D,Chandra Shamsher J.B.R Replaced the Nepal Sambat with Bikram Sambat.
•  It has got 354 days per year, and in every 3 year a month named "ADHIK MAS" is added.
• Months are as: 

1. कछला (November) 
2. थिंला (December)
3. पोहेला (January) 
4. सिल्ला (February)
5. चिल्ला (March) 
6. चौला (April)
7. बछला (May)
8.  तछला (June) 
9. दिल्ला (July)
10. गुंला (August) 
11. ञंला (September)
12. कौला (October)

Happy Tihar and Nhu Daya Bhintuna!! Swanti Wo Nhu DaYa Bhintuna!!

This is the Time of celebration!! Our Great Festival TIHAR has started from today. This year(2068B.S) first two events of tihar, Kaag Tihar (Crow Tihar) and Kukur Tihar (Dog Tihar) has fused on single day. Tomorrow is Gai Tihar (Cow Tihar) and Laxmi(Hindu Goddess of Wealth) Tihar.

Day after tomorrow is Gobhardhan Tihar(Ox Tihar). The Very day is the Happy Occassion of New Year according to Nepal Sambat. That day Nepal Sambat 1131 ends and new Year 1132 N.S. starts.

Last day of tihar is Bhai tika when sisters blesses their brothers along with various delicious foods after doing bhai tika with 7 different colors and brothers gifts their sisters happily!!

Hurray!!!
 May goddess Laxmi bless you all on this auspicious occasion!!!

Celebrate Responsibly!!!

If you are using fireworks then please be careful!! And don't let small children play with such things alone.

AND DONT FORGET TO ENJOY BHAILO AND DEUSI!!!

ahhaaai bhana mera bhai ho-- Deusureyyyy!! :D

How To Download Files Using Bit Torrent?

One of my friend was asking me about torrent and how can we download files using Bit Torrent. Actually its very very easy once you know how to do it. but as a beginner you may face some problems. 


Bit Torrent is a peer to peer file sharing protocol which is very efficient way to transfer large amount of data over the internet. This protocol was developed by Programmer Bram Cohen in 2001.


To Download Files using this Protocol you first need a Bit Torrent Client. Bit torrent Client is a program which allows you to manage Upload and Download files under the Bit Torrent Protocol. The Most Popular one is Bit Torrent itself. 
µTorrent is another popular bit torrent client. There are many other Bit Torrent Clients. I have been using µTorrent. 


First of all you need to have one of these Client Software on your Computer.

You can download uTorrent from Site Below.
DOWNLOAD uTORRENT

Install The Downloaded File.

Now once you have uTorrent your computer is ready to download or upload any torrent file, a file with extension .torrent. These torrent files stores metadata for Bittorrent.

To download Files from torrent, first of all you have to download a small .torrent file which is hosted by many torrent sites. You can simply google them. Just add "Torrent" at the end of  keyword. 

Then go to one of the sites and download .torrent file.

Run this file. Any BitTorrent client is capable of running .torrent file.

There it shows you the dialog box with list of files on that torrent file. Start Download by selecting or deselecting required file.

Its always wise to choose a torrent file with More number of Seeds. If there is no Seeds for the particular file then the downloading halts.  Seeds simply means the users on the swarm who are uploading the file and leaches are users who are downloading. Peers are the computers on the swarm who is uploading as well as downloading. Once peers have downloaded completely, it automatically starts seeding and becomes seed. And I think to keep this peer to peer Sharing alive we must seed at least for sometime even if we cant keep seeding. In p2p sharing each computer on the swarm is both client and server. 

The Bit Torrent protocol helps to reduce the server and network impact of distributing large files.The Bit Torrent Protocol allows users to join a "swarm" of hosts to download or upload from each other simultaneously rather using a older concept of downloading file from single source, multiple mirror technique for distributing data. So, Bit Torrent is very efficient means of sharing data over internet.

ENJOY!!!!

Murder the Feelings [x_<]

Someone is standing

Someone waiting

in the line

trying to get out

they want to see some light

misconception has grown

they think now they have gone blind

age of darkness

and ages of tries

someone has gave up

someone still blv

there is sth they might find

.

.

.

.

rain comes from tears

heart which cant now hold

emotions all questioned

cant they understand anymore

.

.

.

you can see the tears

red or coloured with red

you can't separate from blood

now the time has come

to break all the walls

paint all the blackness

color it with the white

pretend they are bright

kill the fear of the feelings

and fly like a kite

....

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.

.

.

stare straight to the eyes

who had no heart and hand

build own rainbow with shades of black

smile at sad life

and laugh like a child

they know noone cares

noone ever will

they are on their own

to build colors in dark

murder the feelings

that held you  back

murder the feelings

that killed your life

Download Songs From Reverbnation Easily!!!

Reverbnation as it says "The Best Tool for Musicians and Best Music for Everyone else" is really a great site for musicians and music lovers. As a music lover myself I often visit this site to check out various artists, new artist, old artists, rising artists and struggling artists. But the problem was it doesn't allow to download the Mp3 from its site. we have to stream and listen every time. and this really sucks a big time. Even IDM wont grab and capture Mp3s from this site unlike Youtube.

After lots of  Googling around the web, I finally found a perfect tool to cure the REVERBNATION NOT ALLOWED TO DOWNLOAD PROBLEM! Yes now you can easily capture reverbnation songs and save them to your hard disk and listen anytime you want to without any lost of time in streaming or buffering!!

The tool I am talking about is TUBE MASTER++. Tube master ++ is open source Multimedia Capture which now allows you to save multemedia files which can't be downloaded even with the help of IDM or other Downloaders.

Visit the Link Below and Download Tube Master++ now.

Download TubeMaster++

Start Downloading your favourite songs without any obstacle!!
Enjoy The New Freedom!!! Enjoy Your Music!! 


P.S. : Make Sure you save your file just before the download is over or there is high possibility that you may lose it!!!!! Keep Playing your downloading file to prevent from losing it before you have saved it!!!!!


Keep Rocking!!

Start Of New Blog!!!

Dated
24th Aswin 2068 B.S.
 (Kojagrat Purnima[Last day Of Vijaya Dashami])
 October 11, 2011 A.D.

Today I felt like Creating a new Blog. A blog with Something useful, something for fun, and something where i can post something worth reading or viewing. And also I thought I can learn something new in this long vaction.So, here it is Ramro Ramailo (Good Fun).

I came across a title Ramro Ramailo while using my Facebook. May be it was a glitch on my brain. but this glitch was good enough so i saved it on my memory, hoping something useful can be done with it. I don't know what is the future of this blog but i will be giving a good (cant say best) effort to make it worthy!

Read my postings!! And Rate them [] Ramro(Good) [] Ramailo(Interesting) [] Thikai(Nice) [] Jhur(Not Good)

I will be glad to welcome your support and suggestions!!

Thank you for Visiting!!

God Bless You all!!

Peace ,
\/(^_^)

**=**Rose Without a ThorN**=**

No matter how hard this be

This has to end someday
Changes keeps on changing
no matter how deep n hard we keep hanging
has anyone noticed a river without a bend
does anyone know winner without played game

I love rain coz there is warm sun following
and i know so will be this pain
sunshine is somewhere hiding
has you ever seen a rose without a thorn
ups and downs come from the time you r born

there is no rose without thorns beneath
even the calm moon has dark spots on it
don't just sleep on nights dark and miserable
try to dream a beautiful moment for tomorrow
even the brightest sun sets with the dark night
but there is always a fresh new morning on the other side
there is always a fresh new beginning after every hardest end
have you ever seen a river without a bend
have you ever noticed a rose without a thorn

Breathing Dead

Every silent lonely darkness

The nights without your sweetness

I keep staring deep the emptiness

Trying to find something for myself

The soul lost in nowhere land

To trace back those emotions dead or alive

No any confidence is now following

But still the hope hasn't stopped glowing

And I will be waiting and waiting

Till this heart stops beating

To the day when my dead body stops breathing

My memory lane still shines with your smile

Which now burns my heart with flame of pain

Do you REMEMBER?

Remember how i missed you every then and while

Now? Now what do u think i do..

A man with the empty soul

A lover with no signs of love

Broken and blown away..blown to the distant alone

And still trying to search back my life

Revive the happiness, plenty at that time

Soon, very SOON everything will be dying

No any confidence is following

But the hope hasn't stopped glowing

Lil dying hope of your return

Return back my happiness

Come back and love me every time

OHHHHHH DARLINGGGG

I am here waiting for you

...........And i will wait

Till my heart stops beating

For You, so that this dead starts living. .