Seven Stages Of Grief!

Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss, particularly to the loss of someone or something to which a bond was formed. Its human to be in grief when we lose someone. but we cant keep on grieving our whole life. As it says Time Heals Everything our grief also get healed and we slowly return back to our normal life. There are seven stages of all kinds of grief...

1. Grief / Shock- this is our general  reaction at first when we hear about loss of our dear ones
2. Denial - we tend to deny the fact at some level. We never want to accept it at first hand!
3. Anger - WHY ME WHY SO CRUEL TO ME? showing Anger for the loss is very natural. Anger without reason. showing anger to everyone around. blaming not just yourself but everyone on your sight. a feeling of paranoia!
4. Guilt- Frustration.. Feeling of guilt remembering all those good and bad times with your loved ones. remorse over things you did and didn't and you had planned. all those memories!
5. Pain and Sorrow : Depression... Loneliness.. Sad Reflection. All these lead to Pain and sorrow. you realise the true loss. you isolate yourself and get lost in despair!
6. Release and Resolution : Slowly with time you get adjusted with your new life. Your Friends are still there :) you get back to your right world.You haven't lost everyone
7. Return to Willingness to Love: A new Hope. Finally you are able to accept the Reality! A new plan for movng ahead. and you will once agan anticipate some good times to come!

ScareCrow- Pink Floyd

The black and green scarecrow,
as everyone knows,
stood with a bird on his hat
and straw everywhere.
He didn't care....
He stood in a field where barley grows.
His head did no thinking, his arms didn't move,
except when the wind cut up rough
and mice ran around on the ground.
He stood in a field where barley grows.
The black and green scarecrow is sadder than me,
but now he's resigned to his fate
'cause life's not unkind.
He doesn't mind.
He stood in a field where barley grows.

FEW FACTS ABOUT NEPAL SAMBAT

FEW FACTS about NEPAL SAMBAT

• The only calender named after the country.
• Introduced by National hero of Nepal Shankha Dhar Sakhwa.
• It was Introduced in 20 Oct 879 A.D., reign of King Raghavdev.
• It was in official use in all the national documents for 889 yrs.
• Even the Shah Rulers, after the unification of Nepal it was in use, evident by Sugauli Treaty.
• Later in 1903 A.D,Chandra Shamsher J.B.R Replaced the Nepal Sambat with Bikram Sambat.
•  It has got 354 days per year, and in every 3 year a month named "ADHIK MAS" is added.
• Months are as: 

1. कछला (November) 
2. थिंला (December)
3. पोहेला (January) 
4. सिल्ला (February)
5. चिल्ला (March) 
6. चौला (April)
7. बछला (May)
8.  तछला (June) 
9. दिल्ला (July)
10. गुंला (August) 
11. ञंला (September)
12. कौला (October)

Happy Tihar and Nhu Daya Bhintuna!! Swanti Wo Nhu DaYa Bhintuna!!

This is the Time of celebration!! Our Great Festival TIHAR has started from today. This year(2068B.S) first two events of tihar, Kaag Tihar (Crow Tihar) and Kukur Tihar (Dog Tihar) has fused on single day. Tomorrow is Gai Tihar (Cow Tihar) and Laxmi(Hindu Goddess of Wealth) Tihar.

Day after tomorrow is Gobhardhan Tihar(Ox Tihar). The Very day is the Happy Occassion of New Year according to Nepal Sambat. That day Nepal Sambat 1131 ends and new Year 1132 N.S. starts.

Last day of tihar is Bhai tika when sisters blesses their brothers along with various delicious foods after doing bhai tika with 7 different colors and brothers gifts their sisters happily!!

Hurray!!!
 May goddess Laxmi bless you all on this auspicious occasion!!!

Celebrate Responsibly!!!

If you are using fireworks then please be careful!! And don't let small children play with such things alone.

AND DONT FORGET TO ENJOY BHAILO AND DEUSI!!!

ahhaaai bhana mera bhai ho-- Deusureyyyy!! :D

How To Download Files Using Bit Torrent?

One of my friend was asking me about torrent and how can we download files using Bit Torrent. Actually its very very easy once you know how to do it. but as a beginner you may face some problems. 


Bit Torrent is a peer to peer file sharing protocol which is very efficient way to transfer large amount of data over the internet. This protocol was developed by Programmer Bram Cohen in 2001.


To Download Files using this Protocol you first need a Bit Torrent Client. Bit torrent Client is a program which allows you to manage Upload and Download files under the Bit Torrent Protocol. The Most Popular one is Bit Torrent itself. 
µTorrent is another popular bit torrent client. There are many other Bit Torrent Clients. I have been using µTorrent. 


First of all you need to have one of these Client Software on your Computer.

You can download uTorrent from Site Below.
DOWNLOAD uTORRENT

Install The Downloaded File.

Now once you have uTorrent your computer is ready to download or upload any torrent file, a file with extension .torrent. These torrent files stores metadata for Bittorrent.

To download Files from torrent, first of all you have to download a small .torrent file which is hosted by many torrent sites. You can simply google them. Just add "Torrent" at the end of  keyword. 

Then go to one of the sites and download .torrent file.

Run this file. Any BitTorrent client is capable of running .torrent file.

There it shows you the dialog box with list of files on that torrent file. Start Download by selecting or deselecting required file.

Its always wise to choose a torrent file with More number of Seeds. If there is no Seeds for the particular file then the downloading halts.  Seeds simply means the users on the swarm who are uploading the file and leaches are users who are downloading. Peers are the computers on the swarm who is uploading as well as downloading. Once peers have downloaded completely, it automatically starts seeding and becomes seed. And I think to keep this peer to peer Sharing alive we must seed at least for sometime even if we cant keep seeding. In p2p sharing each computer on the swarm is both client and server. 

The Bit Torrent protocol helps to reduce the server and network impact of distributing large files.The Bit Torrent Protocol allows users to join a "swarm" of hosts to download or upload from each other simultaneously rather using a older concept of downloading file from single source, multiple mirror technique for distributing data. So, Bit Torrent is very efficient means of sharing data over internet.

ENJOY!!!!